of course i understand that we can easily get mad
for a 'give me the code' sort of message,
but is there a standard criteria here to judge such a poster? i need that...:)

Re answers to posts"

Nobody "get mad" for gimme code requests, they just answer:
We will gladly comment on and help you resolve problems in code you have written.

re answers to answers to posts:
Another issue: many "get mad" when requested to study the basics, such as "the bible", they expect roasted pigeons to fly through the window. If someone is unwilling to study the basics, why would anyone be willing to help them. Would you teach squares and square roots to someone that refused to learn what 2+2 is?

so:

If you want answers that are easily found in "the bible" do not expect an answer other than the link, if you are too lazy to write your own code, do not expect help here.

Erik