Erik,

If you have nothing better to say, then don't say it at all. Don't demoralize people, just because your a "proud" individual.

When people ask "stupid" question, then answer them with some courtesy and give a helping hand until your really unable to do anymore.

But once you give up on an individual, then better keep your comments to yourself because we're not interested in listening to self-centered individuals giving their useless comments.

Rgds
Rizuan