I did a read through this thread and what do i find?

Yes, there are a few posts that may be 'scary' but the great majority are questions - and since they did not get answered some wild guesses ensued.

If you sort the posts by date, you will see that the 'scary' posts did not appear until - this is a guess - some posters got frustrated by the lack of response to the questions posted.

Another possibility in this case would be that the OP react by thinking "when you will not tell me how to program a 8051 why bother". The fact that a 8051 can not be programmed is irrelevant.

Not necessarily releated to this thread:

I feel, and this is but a feeling, that some times someone pop out a question and, when questions are posted, just disappear beacuse the purpose of the 'question' was not to get help, but to get code. When that is the case, there is no ability to answer questions. So, my suggestion to new posters will be "if you are not prepared to answer questions and do some work yourself, don't bother"

Erik