Let's try this again, in my words just so I understand.

Transmitter:
TB8 = 1;
SBUF = address;

Receiver:
Receives data checks if RB8 = 0 or 1.
If RB8 = 1:
save address
If RB8 = 0 && Address is correct
save data

Transmitter:
TB8 = 0;
SBUF = data;

...

Does this sound right?

Thanks for going over this with me Erik.