I only know or simulators which do some but not all of those requirements.
If you wish to integrate analogue similuations with vhdl then the analogue extention to vhdl is your best bet,but it is very very expensive and a massive language extention.
Have you looked at Modelsims tcl interface?as modelsim is the standard tool for hdl simulation.apart from that berkley spice and its derivatives for general electronics simulation.