i wrote the assembly code for counting the no. of pulses from the reflective targets.

Do you know if these reflectors will work? Long before worrying about how to measure pulse widths you better setup an experiment where you are moving your signal source and the detecor across the reflector field. Then connect the detector circuit output on an oscilloscope and look at what kind of results you get...
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