I had read Prahlad's post yesterday just before leaving the office,
I don't remember how I got the Idea to disable the strobe! I must hve read the imp datasheet a dozen times,,,
Is this the right way to connect to 8051
Ds1232 App note

I am getting 4.9V at vcc

I will fix it tomorrow and then let you know about the result and also thanks for the ALE tip..

Thank you

Deepak