In my opinion, we all should be open enough to accept some tough remarks also. I saw all above postings and saw that though Jay told something which Charles will definately would not like it, but he mentioned "hehehehe". That means he tried it not to be understood wrongly, or personal attack. I find it is very natural way to say some thing to even our personal friends or at business, sometimes we want to refer to such things which we have doubt that listner might not like it, so we say them lightly with a good smile. Jay can not record his voice at this forum, so he mentioned "hehehehe".
Honestly if this word "hehehe" was not mentioned, then I would have thought that Jay should not say such thing which other person will definately mind it.
On the other hand, again I would request all of the forum posters, please please do not feel bad about each other. Most of us do not know each other well. And most of us are here to "Give and Take" anything. But somehow we all like to be here, so do not insult each other thus this forum.
This forum is very important technical resource for most of us. And this forum will not be efficient without all us. We can not afford to loose any of us, so please forgive each other and dont talk about this anymore. In my opinion this thread should be ended now with a good "THE END".
Be good friends.

Your friend Rauf