??? 11/25/05 23:54 Read: times |
#104176 - flamewars, episode 3 Responding to: ???'s previous message |
We're all getting off on the wrong foot here. Lets start
over. Nobody here needs or probably wants a flamewar. I was not intending to start a flamewar, if I was viewed as having been insightful I apologize. I was simply pointing out to to Donald/Darek that they should not freak out to Erik or Andy's unpleasant reply, as this is just how they are. I did not want a newcomer to this website/forum to be discouraged right off the bat, as these two made me feel. I have no problems with the knowledge Erik or Andy have. Like I've always said, I do not have the time in my life to ever "catch up" to them. They will always know much more than I do. With that being said, I am not the first, second, or tenth person to object to the unpleasantness I feel when reading a reply from them. When I come on to this forum, if I see these two online, it makes me feel as if I am driving down a 4 lane highway at night, doing 5mph under the limit, and a cop is pacing me from behind, riding my ass, refusing to pass. This is how these two make me feel. I think that if we all concentrate on making this site more about the technical knowledge and less about making it personal, it will be much better. In order to do that, I ask these two to simply NOT post something negative or degrading when they feel too annoyed to post actual help. I have no problems admitting I am wrong or asking for help, but when I just spent 6 hours trying to solve a problem in ASM, ask for help, and one of these two reply basically "your too damn dumb to get this", well... its pretty discouraging. View it as a personal challenge, you know you know more than most of us. Consider the challenge being to not rub it in or act annoyed when someone else doesn't. |