Hi!
My internet was down so I could not participate earlier, but when i first came to the forum may be year or 2 ago, the first person which i noticed helping other and also helped me was "erik malund". I Like the way he gives answers i.e.
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I understand that you have problem getting the answer which you are looking for but it is you who will decide how to find it, others will only show you the direction, which are some time good for others but may not good for you.
I live in pakistan, where there is no concept of contacting companies.
Secondly we cannot affort programmers worth 600$ ++, so here we used home made programmers for MCU, I purchased first one (for 89c51/52) from a person for about 25$. And then made my own for 89C2051. And I will make eprom programmer in future for my self.
I suggest that if you can not afford it then you should find some think local and cheap.
Also any one who like to answer you question is free to answer, you cannot tell him to "shut-up", it is wrong. The way it should go is that ignore the answers you do not like or can not afford.

bye